There are several people around the world who live a silent life where they do not speak of the abuse that they suffer in the hands of their husbands. They are either afraid or think that that they might not be able to survive all by themselves in the world. They think that their husbands ill come after them and kill them if they open their mouths at any point.
This is not true. You must understand that you are a strong woman even if you do not seem to realize it right now. You have to be able to stand up and that is probably all you need the courage for. Once you take the step and stand up, you can sure take it from there, as and when it comes.
Survey suggests that if you make one single police complaint against your husband if he is abusive, that the abuse almost instantly stops. It is both embarrassing and scary for any man to have a police complaint against him. He will be set in order almost instantly. So don’t be afraid to make that complaint.
Speak to your confidant and see what help they can offer. Most men who are abusive need help. They are who they are because of unresolved issues from childhood and it comes out the wrong way against the one person who they can seem to control. So find ways in which you can help your husband.
If your husband is the kinds who would be willing to have a conversation with you, then you should consider speaking to him about getting help and how much better you would be able to contribute as well to the home if he is able to get his anger and abuse under check.
If you are living in fear and pure fear where you cannot even have a decent discussion with your husband, then you definitely need to get help. Speak to a lawyer. Speak to a support group in your area. There are several support groups available on the web as well. Get some help immediately. Build your self-confidence and then decide how you are going to make your escape.
– confessions of tired moms